Il capitolo era breve e, ancora una volta, offriva uno sguardo interessante su un concetto ormai molto battuto. Gli esseri umani non riescono mai a ricordare nulla con precisione assoluta, perch\u00e9 ogni volta che torniamo su un ricordo, questo cambia \u2013 e anche noi siamo cambiati da allora.
Quello che mi ha colpito davvero, per\u00f2, \u00e8 il modo in cui Whyte presenta la nostalgia come qualcosa che pu\u00f2 essere utile. Quando rivisitiamo ricordi o situazioni passate dalla prospettiva del presente, pu\u00f2 rivelarci quanto siamo cresciuti \u2013 o quanto invece non siamo cresciuti.
Mi \u00e8 piaciuta anche l\u2019idea che la nostalgia possa funzionare come un segnale, indicandoci ci\u00f2 che forse manca nella nostra vita adesso \u2013 anche se forse questo vale solo quando la nostalgia \u00e8 legata a una situazione, pi\u00f9 che a una persona.
Per esempio, se guardi con nostalgia a un periodo in cui eri davvero libero, pu\u00f2 essere un segnale: quella libert\u00e0 non \u00e8 solo qualcosa che hai vissuto una volta, ma qualcosa di cui hai bisogno adesso<\/em> per sentirti pienamente vivo.
Ma la nostalgia pu\u00f2 anche trasformarsi in forza distruttiva. Quando ti incatena a ricordi di persone che non possono pi\u00f9 far parte della tua vita, smette di guidarti e comincia a diventare un vincolo. Se il passato fa sembrare il presente spento e grigio al suo confronto, non pu\u00f2 che portare a un dolore profondo e persistente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
PATRIZIA: <\/strong> BRUNELLA:<\/strong> A me il tuffo nel passato fa sempre bene, perch\u00e9 so nuotare e resto a galla. LAYLA:The chapter was short and, once again, offered an interesting perspective on a well-worn concept. Human beings are never able to remember anything with complete accuracy, because every time we revisit a memory it changes – and we ourselves have changed since it \u00a0took place.What really struck me, though, is how Whyte frames nostalgia as […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":274420141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1368],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"trp-custom-language-flag":false,"newspack-article-block-landscape-large":false,"newspack-article-block-portrait-large":false,"newspack-article-block-square-large":false,"newspack-article-block-landscape-medium":false,"newspack-article-block-portrait-medium":false,"newspack-article-block-square-medium":false,"newspack-article-block-landscape-intermediate":false,"newspack-article-block-portrait-intermediate":false,"newspack-article-block-square-intermediate":false,"newspack-article-block-landscape-small":false,"newspack-article-block-portrait-small":false,"newspack-article-block-square-small":false,"newspack-article-block-landscape-tiny":false,"newspack-article-block-portrait-tiny":false,"newspack-article-block-square-tiny":false,"newspack-article-block-uncropped":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"laylafls","author_link":"https:\/\/30-60-90.uk\/it\/author\/laylafls\/"},"uagb_comment_info":1,"uagb_excerpt":"LAYLA:The chapter was short and, once again, offered an interesting perspective on a well-worn concept. 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Grazie per avere proposto un\u2019altra lettura introspettiva, Layla. \u00c8 bello scoprire come gli altri descrivano i propri sentimenti ed interessante riconoscere quanto possano essere diversi per ciascuno di noi.
Nel mio caso, \u00e8 vero il contrario di ci\u00f2 che descrive Whyte. Per me, la nostalgia nasce da momenti impressi nella mia memoria proprio perch\u00e9 vissuti intensamente. Provo nostalgia per persone che ho amato profondamente, o con le quali ho pianto o riso tanto da sentirne ancora l'eco; per luoghi che mi hanno ispirato un senso di grande libert\u00e0 o riflessioni poetiche sgorgate dalla pura ammirazione della natura.
Piuttosto che innescata dal desiderio di ci\u00f2 che manca nel mio presente, o di cui non ho pienamente goduto nel passato, la nostalgia entra nel mio animo danzando, invitata da canzoni, profumi o volti che riconosco in virt\u00f9 del forte impatto che hanno avuto su di me.
E nel rivivere quei momenti mi commuovo o sorrido con nostalgia proprio per avere assegnato a ciascuno l'importanza che meritavano allora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A me il capitolo \u00e8 piaciuto perch\u00e9, sinteticamente, coglie le nuove definizioni di nostalgia: desiderio non che qualcosa ritorni quanto di ritornare a<\/em> qualcosa- di rivedere le esperienze del passato nelle loro alternative, di riscattare alcune potenzialit\u00e0 del passato.
Cos\u00ec la nostalgia ci aiuta a capire come eravamo, come siamo, come avremmo potuto essere e come potremmo essere. Un legame tra passato, presente e futuro.\nWoody Allen abbraccia questa teoria nel suo film, dove il protagonista torna al passato per poi desiderare un futuro diverso e migliore, mentre la nostalgica protagonista rester\u00e0 nel passato.
Grazie per aver condiviso con noi la poesia \u201cSalt\u201d<\/em> di Margaret Atwood: \u00e8 bellissima e cattura perfettamente l\u2019essenza della nostalgia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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